Performing oral sex as a women desires can convert anyone from a mediocre to a more powerful lover. Oral sex is the act of licking, kissing or sucking on the labia, the clitoris or vagina. Most women find the sensations associated with oral sex very enjoyable. Oral sex may be a part of foreplay increasing sexual arousal before intercourse, or may be the primary function used to bring a woman to orgasm.

In Glamour.com's online survey, 21% of the women reported that the only way they reach orgasm is through oral sex. Some couples don't perform oral sex outside their relationship for reasons of hygiene, religion, and other reasons. And some feel the taste or odors associated with female genital area as being offensive. However, others feel that the natural smell and taste of women as erotic. Some look forward to the taste and smell of a woman excited, however they may experience an orgasm while performing oral sex.

Whether to perform oral sex or not is a question every couple needs to solve on their own, determining exactly what they perfer to do to reach become sexually satisfied

Some women prefer to shower before a oral sex encounter. But showering can remove the beneficial bacteria that protect the vagina naturally. Simply washing or bathing is the best way to prepare for oral sex. Suggest a romantic bath with potions or bath salts. If you find the taste or smell unpleasant, you can use flavored lubricants or dental dam. Make sure your hands are clean and that nails are cut and smooth, so it will not cause discomfort and possible infections. If you have long nails, use latex gloves. Place a cotton ball in each point the finger before putting the glove on.

Women can take 20 to 30 minutes to reach climax. So engaging in foreplay is advised prior to the beginning of oral sex. However, as soon as a women is solidly in the plateau stage of sexual arousal, she can have an orgasm after no more than a few minutes of oral sex. Without enough foreplay, you may find longer periods of oral sex are required to get her excited. This undoubtedly can be less enjoyable and less pleasurable for her to experience.

It is important to know exactly when to began performing the most delicate aspects of oral sex. The clitoris is the center of the female sensitivity and sexual stimulation The clitoris should be the objective, not the vagina. The clitoris is a complex creature. A very general rules is when the woman reacts with little or very moderate excitation, there wasn't enough foreplay. Continue your sexual games and adds little things like licking the hood or the labia, sucking the lips around the clitoris until she becomes more reactive. When women are at the stage of moaning, slightly moving, wet vagina, move closer to the clitoris. The final stages is when the woman is moving around, moaning with a twitching stomach. During this stage you can move directly to stimulating the clitoris. Most women feel better if you increase stimulation pressure during this final arousal process. Some women prefer that the entire stimulative process be performed through the vagina hood.

When a woman involuntary recoils usually up or down for about an inch, demonstrates that these types of actions are premature or too near the clitoris. Most women become nervous immediately after this happens thinking he'll do it again. While some men may think this is a good sign and try to reach the same point again. . Move the tongue further away than the clitoris, and take your time before moving closer. When she has relaxed, you can continue the arousal process moving closer placing more pressure on the clitoris. Every woman is different, and the amount of time it takes to move near the clitoris and the amount of pressure to apply can vary. Pay close attention to their reactions for signals of breathing and body movements. But at the end of the day, it becomes a process of trial and error to learn what exactly should be done to statisfy for partner.

Approach with a level tongue and use his wide and slow movements to explore the inner and outer lips, the vagina, and clitoris. Imagine licking an ice cream cone.

In general, women want to have firm pressure and repetitive motion. If you are unsure, ask her to notice as she feels while trying different kinds of motions, circular, side to side, up and down.

The blended orgasm is the result from the simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. This section describes the blended orgasm which occurs while performing sex oral. There are areas in the vagina that some women may find very sensitive. Rubbing these areas while performing oral sex can achieve a blended orgasm.

The first area is very easy to find. With your facing palm up, slipping a finger into the middle of the vagina, and bending it upper ward. Moving your finger to the left or right till you can feel a ridge that goes all the way back (where the wrinkled skin meets the soft skin along the sidewall). Follow the indentation back until you encounter another deeper indentation which is very light and fluffy. Keep your finger away from the walls to protect sensitive skin from your finger nails, so do not curl your fingers. Rub the pad softly with your finger, moving in and out with the movements very short in the deepest part of the depression. After you do this for a while, you'll feel a depression form at the bottom of the indentation which will become even more sensitive. You may feel a lump emerge on the side and feel her heart beat. Increase the pressure while rubbing. You can continue this until she reaches an orgasm or change to another erotic stimulation point.

The second area is what most people call the G Spot. After using the above technique for a while you can locate the g spot. From the point mentioned above, move your finger little deeper (perhaps half an inch) and toward the center of the vagina, to a soft spongy area. With a little gentle pressure on the area you can feel the g spot, amid a small lump beneath the soft skin. Move your finger in a diagonal direction along the indentation to the point g and then back to the indentation

The third area could be near the opening of the vagina. However, because each women's body is built different, this point may be easy or very difficult to find. Place your finger near the opening and against the top of the vagina, in the center with the palm facing up. Slide your finger in about 1 / 2 to 2 inches. As the top of the vagina bends up and backwards, massage the point where it goes up. Use your finger in the form of a half a hook applying a slight amount of pressure with your finger, pulling slightly upward. Use very short movements up and down. If the hood skin covering the vagina is wrinkled, harder and feels like there is a bone in it, begin with your finger just inside the vaginal opening. The idea is to try to stimulate the area in back of this bone, and about 1 / 4 inch up. Raise and apply pressure with the pad of your hooked finger behind the bone. Rub the area with short up and down movements, with the lightest pressure that you can. This area responds like the clitoris. After she becomes more aroused, you can apply a little more pressure. If you use too much pressure early, or continue to massage the area as she is reaching orgasm, she may jump involuntary. As she is reaching orgasm withdraw your finger completely out, otherwise the contractions can cause her to jump and squeeze your finger.

Women sometimes worry that their genitals may have germs that can be passed to her partner. However, oral sex between healthy, disease-free people is quite safe and clean. Any disease contracted through oral sex could be transmitted by any other kind of sexual contact

The smell of the genitals can be solved by washing, flavored lubricants, dental towels. If you really are bothered by the odor, introduce your partner to a flavored lubricant. Remember, let your partner decide whether she wants to use the lubricant or not.

Underlying the social and legal disapproval are religious prohibitions against oral contact with the genital organs. The weight of the religious teachings through history has had a strong influence on our legal and social standards in many countries.

Oral sex in many cultures is frowned upon and considered illegal. Today, many states still have laws called "artificial acts" which could include oral sex. Although these laws still remain, they are rarely enforced.