There are many different types of medications used to control ejaculation in the form of creams, sprays or even condoms that desensitize the penis that can be used to extent the duration of intercourse.

Water-based lubricants are the most widely available personal lubricant on the market. These specialized personal lubricants are used during the sexual act to reduce friction with the penis, vagina and anus. Popular personal lubricant brands include Slippery Stuff, KY Jelly, Astroglide, Aquawet, Durex Play, Wet, Liquid Silk. But water-based lubricants are not good with many sexual acts in the water like a bathtub, pool or hot tub. Water based personal lubricants can dissolve or disperse in water.

Lubricants made with mineral oil (petroleum), such as petroleum jelly has a tendency to damage the latex condoms.

Some penis creams claim to help men last longer before ejaculation. But it's not a good idea to learn to last longer which can dull the sensation. But the key is for a man to familiarize himself with how he feels so he retreat from the point of no return while maintaining arousal.

On the market , there are anesthetic creams containing gel similar to ones used in a medical office to reduce the stimulation. These products contain topical anesthetics that dull sensation in the penis. More common are the creams containing the active ingredient benzocaine, which if applied before intercourse can delay ejaculation for several minutes. But, you need a condom to protect the partner from possible irritant effects and desensitizing cream. However, it deserves consideration to help delay ejaculation.

Topical lotions have been used to reduce sensitivity in highly sensitive areas of the penis. These lotions are not approved by the FDA specifically for this use, but it is believed that at least some positive effects with minimal chance of risk. One of the many unique qualities of these lubricants is their effectiveness. Users have described a tingling sensation as fast as 1 min after application.